life, loss, and the things I have learned at 26

You can still build good moments in places where bad memories took place.

how do you express yourself?

How about you? How do you express yourself?

Are You Too Hard on Yourself?

If being hard on ourselves mean we just want to be the best version that we possibly can, then be it.

new gigs and tattoo

Remember when I said I’m getting a tattoo when I turned 25? It finally happened last month.

an email – a reminder to blog?

I just mentioned on my previous post that I lost the will to blog, but I got an email about my current plan. This year is my 5th year blogging (not that I've been doing it consistently the first 3 years). I asked myself if it is still worth it to renew. Will I lose …

What Do You Do When You Lose the Will to Blog?

Before, I really make time for this. No excuses. I will write anything, but maybe that’s when I lost it. I just write, without a purpose. I just write to release. While that is a purpose in itself, it only benefits me. It is different reaching out to people and have your words make its impact, touching other’s heartstrings. I lost that magic, I believe. So maybe—just maybe—I am discouraged? I want my writings to be useful if you know what I mean.

Word of the Year + why I don’t like to write poems anymore

I chose the word to remind myself that I have a control over my brain instead of the other way around.

2018: The Year of Self-Sabotage and Self-Love

2017 was so eventful; all the changes that happened were in the form of destruction. Still, it brought lessons. 2018 is also eventful but in a completely different way. All changes that are happening now are focused on rebuilding the life I want.